Red Flags vs. Green Flags. What to Look for in a Partner?
Navigating the early stages of a relationship can feel like a minefield.
How do you distinguish between harmless quirks and serious warning signs? On the flip side, what qualities indicate a partner is worth investing in? This article explores red and green flags to help you make informed decisions about love.
Red flags are behaviors or traits that signal potential problems in a relationship. Examples include controlling behavior, lack of accountability, or consistent dishonesty. For instance, if a partner dismisses your feelings or tries to isolate you from friends and family, it’s a clear sign of unhealthy dynamics. Studies on relational abuse underline the importance of recognizing these signs early to avoid toxic patterns.
Conversely, green flags are positive indicators of a healthy partnership. These include open communication, emotional availability, and mutual respect. A partner who listens actively, supports your goals, and respects your boundaries demonstrates qualities essential for a strong, lasting relationship.
While no one is perfect, understanding red and green flags allows you to assess compatibility more objectively. Trust your intuition and remember that a good relationship should bring peace and growth—not confusion or fear.
Reference:
Wekerle, C., & Wolfe, D. A. (1999). "Dating violence in mid-adolescence: Theory, significance, and emerging prevention initiatives." *Clinical Psychology Review.*
